Breaking A Relationship

I have a fiance and I love someone else alot. My fiance just visited me with her dad and she is now living for a small period of time with me. The girl I love alot knows about my situation and she can’t accept it but I love her alot. I dont want to marry her. I really don’t know what to do. I am planning to leave Uk or go on hidding. I can’t stand all this. My parents will be worried for my missing and they will be very angry. I don’t know what to do please help me out. The other girl is not willing to let me have her and my fiance. I don’t know how to make her, and I don’t want to marry. I saw my fiance for the first time and I can’t stand all this.

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Fantasizing Unrelated Women

I have been Muslim for about two years now, and in my past life I was all about women. Now that I’m a Muslim. It has been the hardest battle to fight. I battle this every moment of the day, and sometimes I manage, while other times I feel that Shaytan has me under control like a puppet. I have been recently married for a year now, and sometimes seeing other women in public, TV, internet, etc., has led me to fantasize and lust. My fantasizing and lust gets to the uncontrollable stage, that is when I enjoin my wife in relations, I fantasize about other women and picture them and block out my wife. Please help me with this issue, as I feel it is a cancer eating away at my soul.

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Feeling For Someone

I have a question and a problem. I am 19 years old and I am in college now. I all of sudden find my self having feelings for this guy my classmate (fellow Muslim). He seems ok, quiet, calm and caring. I feel like letting my heart out to him because I just what to reduce the tension and to just be friends and to see him as a fellow Muslim brother. Thats it. I realy want to be friendly with him like how I am with my other classmates. I hate the fact that I greet my other class mates and I do not greet him. May be because I feel uncomfortable around him My hands tremble when I see him and my heart beats really fast. Please I only want to see him the way I see everyone else. Please help me it is quite tiring. I always pray to Allah to guide me on the right part on how I can get this over with. Please I need your advice as you are my fellow Muslim.

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