Breastfeeding An Adult

I would like to ask a question with reference to a hadith quoted below:

Zainab daughter of Abu Salama reported: I heard Umm Salama, the wife of Allah's Apostle (May peace be upon him) saying to 'Aisha: By Allah, I do not like to be seen by a young boy who has passed the period of fosterage, whereupon she ('Aisha) said: Why is it so? Sahla daughter of Suhail came to Allah's Messenger (May peace be upon him) and said: Allah's Messenger, I swear by Allah that I see in the face of Abu Hudhaifa (the signs of disgust) on account of entering of Salim (in the house), whereupon Allah's Messenger (May peace be upon him) said: Suckle him. She (Sahla bint Suhail) said: He has a heard. But he (again) said: Suckle him, and it would remove what is there (expression of disgust) on the face of Abu Hudhaifa. She said: (I did that) and, by Allah, I did not see (any sign of disgust) on the face of Abu Hadhaifa.
I would like to ask how this Sahabiah Sahla Bint Suhail had breastfed this man as it is mentioned he was an adult. How did he suck from her breast? Could the Prophet command an act which seems to be very discomforting for Salim was not an infant?
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Breastfeeding An Adult

I would like to ask a question with reference to a hadith quoted below:

Zainab daughter of Abu Salama reported: I heard Umm Salama, the wife of Allah's Apostle (May peace be upon him) saying to 'Aisha: By Allah, I do not like to be seen by a young boy who has passed the period of fosterage, whereupon she ('Aisha) said: Why is it so? Sahla daughter of Suhail came to Allah's Messenger (May peace be upon him) and said: Allah's Messenger, I swear by Allah that I see in the face of Abu Hudhaifa (the signs of disgust) on account of entering of Salim (in the house), whereupon Allah's Messenger (May peace be upon him) said: Suckle him. She (Sahla bint Suhail) said: He has a heard. But he (again) said: Suckle him, and it would remove what is there (expression of disgust) on the face of Abu Hudhaifa. She said: (I did that) and, by Allah, I did not see (any sign of disgust) on the face of Abu Hadhaifa.
I would like to ask how this Sahabiah Sahla Bint Suhail had breastfed this man as it is mentioned he was an adult. How did he suck from her breast? Could the Prophet command an act which seems to be very discomforting for Salim was not an infant?
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Relationships By Fosterage

I would like to ask about the fosterage relationship. I want to marry my cousin but my mother told me that she had fed once her milk up to two sips while she was weeping bitterly. This she did without the permission of my cousin's mother. I want to know that does it entail fosterage relationship between us. I asked this question from many religious scholars and muftis. They all told me that I cannot marry her. I was not satisfied by their reply. Then I studied Tafsir of Ibn. Kathir and Sahih of Muslim. I found that that the fosterage relationship is entailed by at least one and maximum 5 times feeding and the feeding should be enough to fill the belly of the baby. The relevant hadith has been ascribed to Hazrat Aishah (rta). Please comment.

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